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Donation Station - My Inspiration Station Magazine

Donation Station - My Inspiration Station Magazine

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CHRISTMAS GIVEAWAY! WIN A FREE LIMITED EDITION WINE TOTE BY AIR NEBULA!

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Not Your Average Mom’s Christmas List

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Connecticut Families In Need - My Inspiration Station Magazine

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Maver Family – A CT Family In Need

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Mission Trips In Need of Funding - My Inspiration Station Magazine

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Where Will He Take Me Next? - My Inspiration Station Magazine

Where Will He Take Me Next? - My Inspiration Station Magazine

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Do Not Forget Who is King, Despite Who Is President.

Shop My Inspiration Station Store

Shop My Inspiration Station Store

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The Best Type of Mom Friend

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Submit Your Story of Faith Now Before Publication!

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Christmas on a Budget In a Big Family

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How to Raise the Perfect Child in the New World – Wisdom Ninja

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Help Us Launch Today!

Help Us Launch Today!: Help Us Launch Today!

If You Come To Our Home

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BE ONE OF THE FIRST TO ADVERTISE WITH INSPIRATION STATION

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We Have A Big Announcement!

We Have A Big Announcement!: My husband and I are excited to share with the world our big announcement. While we are in the process of hammering out all the details we need YOUR help!

We Have A Big Announcement!

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WIN A FREE TATTOO BY MIKEY HAR OF TRANSCEND TATTOO

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To The Preacher Who Tried To Destroy Me

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Waiting On A Prayer & So Much More

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Motivation Monday – Monday Mingle #1

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Date Night Ideas For Parents

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WIN A FREE TATTOO BY MIKEY HAR OF TRANSCEND TATTOO

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7 Signs That You Are Doing Well In Life

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Freezer Apple Pie Filling

Freezer Apple Pie Filling: Freezer Apple Pie Filling. The easiest way to put up apples to enjoy a quick dessert all winter long. Frugal and delicious!

10 Reasons Why Everyone Needs A Tribe

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WIN A FREE TATTOO BY MIKEY HAR OF TRANSCEND TATTOO

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Apple Cinnamon Crisp Oatmeal Cookie Cups Recipe

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Sometimes You Just Have To Say “Whatever”

Sometimes You Just Have To Say “Whatever”: As a mom sometimes you have to throw your hands up & say, 'Whatever' The time & aggravation it will cost to argue with your little human just isn't worth it

How To Select The Perfect Baby Name

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Get Excited Because It’s Almost Time To Meet Oddy!

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Nine Is New Territory For You And I

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Halloween Safety Tips For Your Little Trick-or-Treaters

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5 Ways to Keep Your Kids Safe While Biking – Mama Glow

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My Journey in Finding Faith & How God Saved Me

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Quiz: Which Tattoo Style Fits Your Personality?

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Magnolia Designs Giveaway Sponsored by A Mother of All Trades

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Hampton Beach Honeymoon at The Boardwalk Inn & Cafe

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5 Secrets of iPhone Monitoring Software Revealed: Guest Post

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Sick Again And I Need Your Help

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Meet Oddy! The Greatest Invention Yet To Keep Kids Safe.

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WIN A FREE TATTOO BY MIKEY HAR OF TRANSCEND TATTOO

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LAST DAY TO ENTER! Giveaway Time Again! Stokke Flexi Bath & #AMOAT

LAST DAY TO ENTER! Giveaway Time Again! Stokke Flexi Bath & #AMOAT: IT'S GIVEAWAY TIME AGAIN. Giveaway will be running for 2 MORE DAYS starting now! Plenty of ways to enter. Unlock all the new ways to enter and win!

Catalyst Church in Middletown, CT Needs Your Help!

Catalyst Church in Middletown, CT Needs Your Help!: If you've ever wanted to donate or help someone out before, here is your chance. Help make Catalyst church's home permanent, have fun, and do good!

This Woman Came Across My Feed Today

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Never Stop Believing

Never Stop Believing: Never stop believing. This week could have been the worst one of our lives, but we held strong to our faith and He showed Himself to us.

Giveaway! Stokke Flexi Bath & #AMOAT

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Presenting The Thirty-One Giveaway Winner AND ANOTHER RAFFLE!

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The Reasons Behind The #Hashtags

The Reasons Behind The #Hashtags: Lately I have had a lot of 'friends' playfully 'joke' about my use of hashtags. Let me explain the purpose of my hashtags for the ignorant.

The “Is That Poo or Chocolate?” Moment

The “Is That Poo or Chocolate?” Moment: Have you had that is that poo or chocolate moment? Well, lately for me all of the moments seem to be turning into poo covered messes.

Giveaway Time! Win A Bubble Bloom Double Duty Caddy

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Taking A Break l Mom Life Monday Motivation

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College Graduation Is So Close But So Far

College Graduation Is So Close But So Far: College graduation is literally right around the corner for me. But just as it is close, it is also so far. I need all the help I can get right now.

Enter The Stokke Giveaway l Friday Feature

Enter The Stokke Giveaway l Friday Feature: This giveaway will be running for 13 days starting now! There are plenty of ways to enter daily. Unlock all the new ways to enter and win!

My One and Only Superhero – WP Daily Post

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I Can’t Get A Word In Edgewise – Pray With Me Wednesday #3

I Can’t Get A Word In Edgewise – Pray With Me Wednesday #3: Today I literally could not get a word in edgewise with my family. On a positive I did meet some great ladies today. Today let's pray together.

Deuter KangaKid Hiking Backpack

Deuter KangaKid Hiking Backpack: Great hiking backpack for this fall with little ones in tow! Plus FREE SHIPPING!

Alone Again. I Didn’t Think It Would Hurt This Much

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Ogo Sport Copter Darts – Tuesday Tips

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We Found Love But It Didn’t Come Without Its Struggles – Reblog

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Let Your Work Be Your Worship l Mom Monday Motivation

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All I Want Is Good Food & A Maid

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Giveaway Time! Win A Bubble Bloom Double Duty Caddy

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Smart Mat & Wonky Wheels l Friday Feature Review

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Blended Family Life At It’s Finest: Originally Posted on The Next Family

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Quiz: Which TV Mom Are You Most Like

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Smart Mat & Wonky Wheels l Friday Feature Review

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Adult ADHD & Motherhood: The Ugly Truth

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Blogging World l Hot Topic Thursday

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Lord You Are My Shepard l Pray With Me Wednesday

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Life Hacks For The Busy Mom l Tuesday Tips & Tricks

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Blended Family Life At It’s Finest

Blended Family Life At It’s Finest

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The First Day of School l Mom Life Motivation

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Open Letter To The Nuclear Families – Originally Posted on The Next Family Magazine

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An Open Letter to the Nuclear Family

An Open Letter to the Nuclear Family

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An Open Letter to the Nuclear Family

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Guest Bloggers Series

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My Not So Stellar Past l Hot Topic Thursday

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Love, Struggles, and My Blended Family

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Quiz: Are You Smarter Than a Sixth Grader?

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I Give You My Fear

 When I woke up this morning all I could think about is my poor husband. This man that works so hard for us every day. This man that has had his child ripped from his arms for no reason at all. I couldn't stop thinking about how much I miss my step-son, and what I would give to hold him in my arms right now. I couldn't stop the flood of emotions pouring out of me as I was anxiously worrying about how we are going to pay the bills this month with all of the time he needs to take off for court, on top of the new costs that have just landed upon us due to this nasty custody battle we are in (You can read about it here: Our Saga).
 As I lay there stricken with worry and fear for our future I remembered something our Pastor at Hope Church said on Sunday. The short of it was he reminded us to give our fears to God. We spend so much of our time worrying about things we cannot change, and not enough time enjoying what we have. So today I give my fears, and worries to you God. I will not let them control me or my life. I will not let them take me down the path of depression, a road I was so fearful that would consume me. Today, I vow to not let my fears and anxiety's win. NO, today Lord I give my fears to you. I will dry the tears that roll down my face, and replace them with strength. What better day than today to start fresh? To start new. I am going to stand strong, with my feet planted firmly on the ground and make the most out of what we do have. I will no longer focus on the negative evilness that surrounds our life. I will focus on the love and devotion my husband and I share for each other. I will concentrate on the four children that I am able to hold, and that love me with every fiber of their little beings. I will be the best mom, and wife that I am humanly capable of being. I fear not, because the Lord is with me.
 

**Side Note: We are trying to raise money to keep our family afloat for the next few weeks. You can read a little about our story here: A Plea For Help. If you are able to donate to help us you can follow this link gofundme.com/momofalltrades5. Anything you can spare is greatly appreciated.  And we are not opposed to working for any donations. If you want to do a guest spot, or have me sponsor a post, or write a review for you I can gladly do that!**

A Mother of All Trades: An Update on The Devil Wore a Collar & A Plea for ...

A Mother of All Trades: An Update on The Devil Wore a Collar & A Plea for ...: When I started this blog I certainly never expected my 100th post to be so depressing and sad. I imagined my 100th post would have been a...

An Update on The Devil Wore a Collar & A Plea for Help

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When I started this blog I certainly never expected my 100th post to be so depressing and sad. I imagined my 100th post would have been about the fun adventures my family and I were having, but instead it is an update into our Saga, and a plea for help. If you have been following our journey through Hell you know my husband had court today. We had high hopes that there would be some turn around. However, that wasn't the case. I do not have the official papers from the court yet, but when I do I will be sure to post them. Today, my husband was ordered  to pay the bio mom (who works and so does her husband and they have no other children to support), $170 a week. On top of that the only way he is to see his son is through a program called KidSafe. This program supervises visits in a dingy room that is uncomfortable for both child and parent. The initial visit is $360 and every visit there after is $70 per hour. This is the only way he is allowed to see his son until next month when we have an official trial. I am to be no where near my step-son. We still have no answers as to why this is happening, and we have no idea what is going to happen when we go to trial. I am still keeping the faith that something is going to turn around. There is no evidence of foul play on our part in any way, how they are getting away with this is baffling both our attorney and the guardian appointed to my step-son. The only explanation in my eyes is corruptness within our judicial system, which we already suspect is happening.

My poor husband left court today with a heavy heart and went back to work. He is a broken man. This is exactly what his mother and ex-wife wanted. They left him out to dry wet, and now he is just a shell. He feels like he has failed our family. With the new costs we are incurring, on top of the mountains of debt we are in with the lawyer to keep pursuing this case, and our monthly bills just to live and support all of our children we are in way over our heads. We have no idea how we are going to pay for him to see his son, plus that amount of money per week and still be able to afford our home. We are hoping that when we go to trial in June that we will no longer have any need for supervised visitation and the child support will be knocked down because the bio mom will hopefully no longer have sole custody. But until then, we are hopeless right now. I never thought I would get to the point where I am asking strangers for help. But I am begging for help. I do not want my husband to miss out on seeing his son because he won't be able to afford to keep our home and feed all the kids at the same time. I do not want my children to have to move again because of the evil woman doing this to us for no reason what so ever. I know everything happens for a reason, and I know God has a plan for us, but right now for a little while, we need some help.

I am praying that you can find it in your hearts to donate anything you can to us. And someday when we are back on our feet I promise that I will repay the debt we owe you in every way we can. We are desperate, and we desperately want to save our family and keep them shielded from any more hurt. I have been applying for some freelance writing jobs, but if anyone knows of anything out there I will gladly take anything I can get to earn a few bucks. We are not opposed to working for any donations. We are both hard workers and never thought we would be in the position to be as distressed as we are. I want to thank you all who have been sending me well wishes and prayers. They mean so much to us, all of your kind words have been so uplifting when I have needed it most. I sincerely pray with all my heart that next month they will finally let us have our son back, but until then I want to thank you in advance for anything that you can help us out with. We appreciate all of the support and encouragement.

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The #RevofKindness Challenge

#RevofKindness 

I have decided to participate in my first challenge since I have started blogging. What I love most about this challenge is that it centers around KINDNESS. The beauty of this challenge is that you do not need a blog to participate, any form of social media will do. You only need to post once a week, and there will be prompts for 7 weeks. If you would like to find out more or join this challenge with me I would love you if you follow the link HERE (#RevofKindness). You don't even have to write in this challenge if writing is for you, you can participate through pictures, music, or whatever your art form is. This challenge starts next Monday so please sign up today. When I signed up for this challenge I was a bit hesitant as I have never done any sort of challenge like this before. Niki was so kind to explain it to me, and I was hooked right away. There is nothing better than to be kind to other people in this world. We are all walking the same Earth, we all have the same basic essential needs, there is no reason to be anything less than kind to one another. For some reason however, we don't live in a very kind world. This world can be cruel, and hurtful, and deceitful. But that shouldn't change you, that shouldn't make you bitter, that should tell you to be MORE kind. Do MORE good. Kindness comes in all shapes and sizes and I am excited to see where this journey takes me. I hope, most of all, that my friends and family will join me on this journey and sign up to take a part of this challenge #RevofKindness. If you need help, please don't hesitate to reach out to myself or Niki. P.S. I need your help every day to vote for me so I can keep moving up in rank. Please take five seconds out of your day and vote by clicking the picture :) Thank you! 



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A Mother's Day Reminder

With Mother's Day only a week away here in the United States I wanted everyone to keep a few things in the back of their minds when they are posting things about their day. There are mother's out there who never got to meet their babies, their are some mother's who had to give their babies back to Heaven, their are some mother's who never got to fulfill their destiny of being mother's. There are mother's who are mother's by adoption, their are mother's who share their children with biological mother's. There are mother's who feel a constant sting every day because they have suffered a loss of a child, and this day is just a reminder of exactly how painful it is going on without them. No matter what type of mother you are this day shouldn't be any less special for you. But to all you mama's out there suffering, to all the mama's that feel a pain I hope I never  have to feel, I hope you know that you are loved too. I'm sorry for your pain, and I am sorry you don't have your little one to wrap his arms around you. I'm sorry that this day shoves the loss you have endured in your face. But grieving mama, I want you to know that you are stronger than any of us are. For you had to give your baby wings, and here you are, still standing on your Earthly feet. I salute you today, and every day grieving mama. You are fighting a battle I know nothing about. To all the mama's that still have youngsters; remember to hold them tight. That it isn't just today that is special, it is every day you get to hold your baby in your arms that is special. Mother's day isn't about gifts, and presents. And some of us moms, I know I am included, want to just have a relaxing day sometimes "kid free". But please remember that their are mama's who want nothing more than to hold their baby's just one more day. So when that day comes, celebrate the life that gave you the opportunity to celebrate your day.


Don't ask for peace and quiet, because if that's all you had you would want nothing more than the sound of their voices back. Don't ask for a clean house, because someday when they are grown you will miss seeing their toys they once loved. Don't ask to be alone, they are only little for a short time; and someday you will miss those tiny hands and feet. Regardless of if you are a step-mother, a biological mother, or a mother who has suffered a loss, you are still a mother. And I hope you all know how special you are. You all have a job and never complain about it. You are all the most selfless humans that walk this planet. You all deal with things that some of us know nothing about. But the one thing we all have in common is that we love our babies with a fierceness that only we, as mothers, can understand. I hope all the mama's out their have a special day. But keep your neighbor in mind, keep in mind the battle they may be fighting. Be good to everyone you meet. And if someone isn't nice in return, maybe ask yourself why instead of assuming. Love always, Please take a moment to vote for me daily here:  

The Devil Wore A Collar - Part V

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If you are just starting this story here are the links to start from the beginning: The Devil Wore A Collar – Part I The Devil Wore a Collar Part II The Devil Wore a Collar Part III The Devil Wore a Collar Part IV In reading this please keep in mind that so much more occurred than what you are reading. This story would have been a novel if I included everything that happened to us.
 Originally I was going to paraphrase what the court documents that I had been served said, but I have had a lot of people questioning, "Could a pastor mother really do this?" The answer is yes, so I have instead decided to input the actual paper work I was served that morning. I have blacked out names to protect the parties involved. What I realized as I was reading this is my MIL had used my step-son's mother like a puppet to try and destroy us in ways that are unimaginable. Upon reading this the first thing that upset me was the judge who granted this is a good friend of my MIL's and they actually were an item at one point. The second, is almost everything that was stated in here about me and my husband are out and out bold face lies. I have never once been institutionalized for any sort of mental disorder. I did have a bought of depression when I was pregnant with my second child and received care and Zoloft for that and have since been off of that for years. I am also ADHD which I was prescribed Ritalin for, but I have learned to cope without medication and have not been on that for about 4 years now. I have nothing to hide, so I will tell you I currently take Prozac for premenstrual dysphoric disorder. Google it. Also, I would NEVER and have NEVER sworn AT my children or abused them in ANY way! Do I yell on occasion if they are out of control, yes. What mother doesn't? I never scream at them or get in their face or anything to that nature, it's more of a "Are you serious right now?" kind of reaction. I don't feel that I need to defend myself line by line but the jist of it is none of this is true. I was on my knees in the middle of the floor shaking and stricken by what I just read. I read it over and over at least 5 times to really let the magnitude of what was happening sink in. We had just gotten back from an awesome family vacation with my step-son. He loved me so much. For Mother's Day he would make ME things, for school field trips, and classroom presentations he wanted ME there. Everyone in our town knew that, and so did everyone at his school. I didn't believe for one second he said those things. And for my MIL to say she moved in to help with the children was ridiculous! I asked her to move in! And not ONCE did she ever help us with the kids or offer to babysit or anything. All of these things start replaying in my mind as I am going over these documents. I suddenly realize she has been setting me up from the beginning. The night she came down and scolded me for yelling at the children all of sudden flashes through my mind. I remember thinking to myself, "This woman is nuts, what the heck is she talking about. She is constantly yelling at my girls!" I wondered if I spoke up then what would have happened. I wondered if I told my husband sooner of the things I suspected her of doing, if we would have been in this position right now. And for her to go as far as to say my husband was going to beat her up was just the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard! And what struck me as odd is the police had just left saying she made a complaint stating he said he was going to "kill her", and in the court documents it said "beat her up". These two accusations are completely different and I feel that if you felt your life was threatened in such a way you would remember those words verbatim, no? The weeks to follow were an absolute living nightmare...

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Things have been so crazy for my husband and I lately. The way people are trying to hurt us is indescribable. But we have to believe that there is a special place in Hell for those people. And Karma will come for them. Stay positive, stay strong.

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School is Now in Session

It's back to school for this mom, and boy am I stressed to the max. I've been gaining so much attention on my WordPress blog A Mother of All Trades, and now I am gaining access to affiliate companies to promote my site. As incredibly exciting as this venture is, it is near impossible to keep up with an ever demanding website, as well as my Lifespan Development psych class. Let's not forget I also have 5 children I have to take care of, plus everything else going on in our lives (you can read about that here The Devil Wore a Collar Saga). I am excited that I have so much going for me at the moment but I am so terrified I am going to drop the ball on something. My schooling means everything to me. I aspire to be a case worker for blended families, and families going through divorce and custody issues where young children are involved. I have about 11 months before I finish my Human Services degree. My passion is writing, my website on WordPress is such a liberating experience for me. 

I had to take a recent backseat on my website and allow for some guest posts for other authors and blog writers to gain more exposure. This is helping me focus on getting back into the swing of things in school. However, I can't get a moment of peace in this house with 4 girls running around like maniacs. How a 4 year old's voice resonates throughout the whole house is beyond me. I know I'll figure it all out, because I'm the mom and that's what we do. I just can't wait until school is a distant memory and I can look back on all that I have accomplished.

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How Does Your Husband Measure Up?

I needed some motivation today, and there isn't anyone who motivates me more than my husband.  What motivates you? This post contains sponsored links from affiliates.  The past few months as I scroll through my newsfeed on Facebook, I have been seeing so many posts about woman complaining about their husbands or significant others. Tons of posts about how their husbands are lazy around the house all the time, husbands that don't help with their children, husbands who just completely ignore them; and these woman are asking for advice on if this is normal and do other woman experience the same thing. I'm here to tell you right now, in this very moment that it is not normal, and should not be accepted. My husband works his ass off at a 40+ hour a week job, getting up every morning by 5:45am. He never once complains. He still gets up with the baby in the middle of the night if I'm tired, or sometimes just because he wants to. He understands that I'm home all day with 5 children on and off. He comes home from breaking his back at work all day, and will start dinner if I haven't, or finish up the laundry or anything else that he sees that needs to get done. He never asks, he just does it. We are in this together, we are a team. He never makes me feel bad if the house isn't spotless when he comes home from work. And we never dive into the craziness together without him giving me a kiss when he walks in the door. So ladies here are 10 simple rules, if your man doesn't follow at least 8 of these then you should find a new man.

  1.) He makes you fall more in love with him everyday.     By this I mean that he takes time out of his day to show you in some way that you are the most important woman in his life.

  2.) He sends you random texts during his day.    It can be once a day or it can be multiple times a day. My husband always shoots me a text just to let me know he's thinking of me, he loves me, or the fun things we have planned for when the kids go to sleep ;)

  3.) He includes you on any and all plans he makes for himself and the family. You are not a free babysitter. There should not be a problem with your man hanging out with his friends periodically, but he should have the courtesy to let you know at least 24 hours prior that he is going to be busy. Or if he is including the family in the plans so that you can get yourself and the kids prepared.

  4.) He makes time for you. This one boggles my mind that I even have to mention it, but if your husband isn't making time for you, then he doesn't want to be with you. No matter how busy he may be or how many things he has going on, a good man will always set aside time for the woman that he loves.

  5.) He helps out around the house. The household is both of your responsibility. Whether you are a stay at home mom or not, all the responsibility should not be left on your shoulders. We all know how hard it is to get anything done with little ones in the house. If your husband see's things that need to be picked up, or dinner hasn't been started yet he should have no problem helping you out. After all, you are raising his minions.

  6.) He never minds you hanging out with your friends. Don't abuse this one ladies. But if you want to hang out with your friends from time to time there should never be a question about it. First of all he should trust you enough because you have proven that you are trustworthy, and second of all he should have no issue watching the kids.

  7.) He gets up in the middle of the night with the baby. Girls, keep in mind he does have to get up early in the morning for work to provide financial stability, but that doesn't mean you aren't just as tired taking care of the kids all day. He will understand that if he is a good man, and won't wake you when he knows you've had a rough day.

  8.) He keeps your romantic life alive. Yes, it is your responsibility too. Your husband or partner should not be the only one trying to keep the flame burning. But at the same time he will still make you feel wanted, by coming up from behind you to hug you, or grab you on the sides suggestively, and periodically coming up with new moves for the bedroom, or any other room he decides to ravish you in.

  9.) He supports you and builds you up.  Your husband should  support you in your dreams, your desires, your crazy business ventures and anything else you want to do. While encouraging and supporting you, he will build you up, even if he knows the idea sounds silly he will recognize your need to set yourself apart from just being his wife and mother of his kids. And the last one is the most important...

  10.) He loves you unconditionally. This means that whether you are a raging bitch one week due to hormones and pms, or you're a frazzled lunatic because of an upcoming party; he accepts you, holds you a little tighter, and lets you know that you are going to get through it together. I am in no way a relationship expert, but I have had the really bad significant other and I now have an amazing husband who does all of these things and more. You must realize though ladies in order for your husband to treat you like a queen you must treat him like a king in return. It's all about give and take, and more give than it is take. This little piece of advice should just come naturally, it shouldn't have to be work or worked on, you should want to help each other, because after all you are  team and you want to succeed together. Never get too busy that you forget why you fell in love in the first place.
 So how does your husband measure up?

Mom Monday Motivation

I had the hardest time getting out of bed this morning. I sometimes feel discouraged for no reason at all. Things are going great there is no reason to feel this way. Maybe it's just the Monday blues. So here's some Mom Motivation for all you other Mom's feeling the blues today!

Go ahead and buy yourself something pretty today :) I give you permission. Here are some of my favorite things!

6 Things I Hope My Step-Kids Always Remember

  It is far from easy being a mother. I find it even harder to be a step-mother. You aren't just automatically loved by your step-children just because you married their father. That's a love you have to work for, it's a special kind of love. It's not one that comes easy, and that is what makes it so unique. You aren't bred to love each other. It's hard when you start out as a new step-mom, and even as an established one. What are your boundaries? What is allowed? What isn't? Am I trying too hard, am I not trying hard enough? You are always doubting yourself, and over analyzing every move you make. It's nerve wracking because you want these children to love you because you love their father and they are a part of your life now. But sometimes that love comes with a price, and without open communication that love may never come at all. These are some things I hope my step kids always know:

1. I was/am a step-kid too. I know it can be difficult to accept someone new into your life. I know it's different, and uncomfortable at times to see your dad with someone other than your mom. But talk to me, I will always know what that feels like. If you want time alone with your dad, just tell me. I'll take a ride. I want you always to be comfortable and I will never get in the way of your relationship with your father.
2. I will never talk bad about your mother (or at least not in front of you). Whether I like you mom, or she likes me has no bearing on the fact that she is YOUR mother. I will always respect her for that and I will never talk bad about her (in front of you). If at times your mom annoys you or you are upset with her, I will always be here for you to vent to but I will never join in your mom bashing. She will always be your mom and at one point you two will resolve the issue. 
3. I will never try and take your mother's place. Your mom is your mom, I am just a bonus mom. I love you just the same as if I carried you, however I did not. Her rules are her rules and we need to follow them, even if I don't always agree it is not my place. I will never make you call me mom, unless you want to, and I will never over step my boundary. 
4. I will love you like my own. Even though I am not your birth mom I will love you no different than I love my own children. I will care for you when you are ill, I will put a band aid on your scraped knee and give you a kiss, I will cuddle with you, read to you, sing to you, tuck you in at night, buy you treats, and more. I will never exclude you from something because you are not my birth child. I will never refer to you as "just my step-kid", you are still my kid even though I am not your mom I hope someday you understand what that means. 
5. Everyone will always be treated fairly.  I cannot make this any clearer to you. I will never take my daughter's side involving anything just because I gave birth to them. Right will always be right, and wrong will always be wrong no matter who committed the crime. I will never show my daughter's any more or less attention, affection, praise, or punishment than you two. All 5 of you will have as equal amounts of everything as humanly possible.
6. There may be times. There may be times you hear your mom or other people talking bad about me or your dad. If you don't understand or it confuses you please talk to me or your mom about it. There may be times I have upset you in some way and I didn't even realize, please talk to me about it. There may be times you want your dad to yourself without the other kids and me around, please talk to me about it. There may be times when you are angry at me and you don't even know why, please talk to me about it.

Kids, I will always be here for you. Sometimes you may love it and sometimes you may hate it. But as long as you talk about it, we will always be able to try and resolve it. Don't forget many of the ways you will feel, and are feeling I have already been through on your end. The bonus about me being your step-mom is that I am not your mom first, I am your friend first. Don't ever forget how much I love you, or doubt for one second that I wouldn't cross the Atlantic in paddle boat with one oar if that's what it took to make you happy. I love you kiddos. If you liked this blog please CLICK HERE to vote for me as a Top Mommy Blogger. Your daily votes count!
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Being A Woman

Honestly most of the time I love being a woman. I love everything that being a woman encompasses. I love feeling sexy, or cute, or pretty all depending on my mood and apparel choices. I love that I can change my look by a simple color and cut of my hair. I love my body. I love being a mother, and a wife. I really love it all! But then there's the other times. The times I loathe being a woman. I am aggravated that I am the mother and annoyed that I am the wife.





I almost always hate being a woman when I get in the shower. That shit sucks! A shower can never just be something that is done quickly for a woman. I have to wash and condition my hair; which is long and thick so it takes forever. I have to shave my legs, my arms, and everywhere else that hair can grow, because eww I hate hair. If I let that go for more than two days shaving my legs turns into mowing my legs. Gross! Then I have to wash my body, and scrub my face with a different wash. Then every other day I put a mask on in the shower to rejuvenate my face. It doesn't stop after the shower though. Then I have to apply the oil, serum, and face cream to my face to keep this beautiful young looking, supple skin. Then, oil and lotion the rest of my body. This process is absolutely dreadful. Yet I am a woman in her 30's that doesn't want to look dried up and old so I must keep up with this madness!



I get aggravated that I am a mother daily! What really gets me is that I have to repeat myself at the minimum of 10 times before the kids listen to me. And even then what I asked to have done isn't even done properly! What is that? I can't stand stepping on Shopkins, and Barbie shoes! I hate walking in a puddle of God knows what on the floor, like why didn't you tell me you spilled something? Or better yet, why didn't you clean it up? I hate listening to the kids bicker, I can't stand when they whine. I hate that every time I am doing something I get "Mommed" to death until I answer and then they don't even want anything but I just completely lost my mind, I mean train of thought! I hate that I can't get a moment of peace. I hate that even though Dad's on the couch watching television that I am the one they have to come to for the dumbest things, even though I am in the middle of writing a psych paper! What the Hell? And how many God damn times do I have to say "SHUT OFF THE LIGHT!"?



My husband is amazing. If you read my posts you know how unbelievable he is. I think because of that I get so annoyed with being the wife. I feel inadequate at times. Most days when he comes home dinner isn't made or ready, the house is a disaster, and the mountain of laundry hasn't even been tackled yet. He'll come home and just pick up where I left off and make it look so simple. And as much as I love that about him, I am so annoyed that I'm the wife. I'm the one who should be doing this stuff with no problems and no complaints, but instead he is working all day and picking up my slack at night. That's so unfair and I know it. But I can't stand putting the hundreds of articles of clothing away, and every time I clean there's just another mess right behind me. It's exasperating. I love being HIS wife, but the wifely duties that should accompany that are so obnoxious.



Don't get me wrong. I love being my children's mother, my husband's wife, and a woman. And in the same breath all three of those things are so tiring. But I wouldn't trade it for anything else in the world. My family is everything to me. And I am everything to them.

What do you hate about being a woman? I'd love to hear your thoughts!



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Tips For Mom Raising Daughters

 

 As a mom of 4 daughters  I can tell you I feel the struggle. It's not easy. I have three of them in very different stages. I have a tween, a kindergartner and preschooler, and I have a toddler. They all need different things from me, but at the same time, they all need very similar things from me as their mother. I often write about how trying they are, but they are also so wonderful in their own ways. As a mother they are looking to me to help them define who they are. Our roles as mothers are so critical to our daughters. I am going to share some tips I have in order to help you be the best role model for your daughter.

• Encourage Her. Encourage her everyday to try new things. To be herself. To work hard in school. To find something she loves to do and help her foster and grow that. Encourage her to dance, and sing, and laugh, and play, and get dirty.
• Teach Her. Teach her the importance of being healthy and safe. Teach her to love herself. Teach her to be kind. Teach her to use her mind. Teach her the importance of education. Teach her the importance of independence, and self satisfaction. Teach her to be secure. Teach her HOW to make the right decisions to her, and what that means. Teach her to be accepting of everyone. Teach her to be a problem solver. Teach her to be creative. Teach her to be heard, not just seen.
• Lead by Example. You have to be the best you that you can be, so she can learn to be the best her she can be. That does not mean turn your daughter into you, that means showing her the ability to be secure in who you are. That there is no right or wrong version of herself, but when she is secure in who she is, it will be right. Show her a woman she can be proud of. Show her how amazing it is to be a woman, by being amazing. Be a positive and good person and that is who she will want to be.
• Promote Her. This does not mean be the crazy dance mom you see on television, but this does mean to make her feel good about herself. Tell her how wonderful she is, inside and out. React to her positive decision making. Tell her she is beautiful. Tell her you love the way she thinks. Tell her you love her imagination. Tell her you love the way she draws and colors. Promote good self-esteem. Do not ever put her down.
• Be. Be patient. Be kind. Be understanding. Be open-minded. Be loving. Be caring. Be strong. Be bold. Be diverse. Be open to talk to. Be gentle but firm. Be decisive. Be creative. Be positive. Be healthy. Be silly. Be funny. Be serious. Be the best you, you can be.

There are many different ways that you can be a great mom to your daughter. Use these and elaborate on them if you will. Just remember how important it is to show your daughter that value in being a woman. It is something to be treasured and proud of. Not ever something to be ashamed of or put down for. Make sure she always knows how special she is, and that she does not need outside validation to know that. All that matters is that her and you know how truly amazing she is.

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